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I'd just like to say how amusing I find it when everyone automatically go into "Oh it was a teenage relationship? Those are never important" mode. I find it amusing cause most the girls I knew in high school married their high school boyfriend and are still married to them. But at the same time I understand why such assumptions are made, teenagers do stupid shit.

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When people are complaining about how lost they are now that their teenage relationship is over, there is a reason why people say 'those never last'.

No one talks about their failed teenage relationships during the wedding receptions your female friends had.

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Originally Posted by niki

I think it's worth noting that both are girls. Yeah, us and them don't really work the same way, emotionally. /newsflash

Hey now. I didn't say my experience with my first love was "nostalgic."

I think it depends on the emotional level of the person involved. I look back and shake my head wondering what I was thinking. (Emotionally stunted or something, maybe)

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You said yourself Fenix that it's a self-fulfilled prophecy; that means you must have some way of telling that you know you are consciously thinking about being boring. You expect yourself to be boring and as such you bore people.

How about you try and forget for one night that you feel flawed; let someone actually see you as you are and stop obsessing over how you look to other people. In my personal experience, being yourself is the best thing you can do to find someone who is compatible with you.

Maybe you're obsessing over getting a partner quickly. I'm going to be unusually harsh and say that implies that you wish for something a little more base than a meaningful relationship. If the latter is what you truly wanted, you could wait until you knew it was right. Instead you are obsessing over girls at parties, assuming they think you are boring. Had it ever occurred to you that maybe a lack of worry and a lack of interest in finding a partner might help you more than your current mindset?

To Ozzie: I was in a teenage relationship and felt the same way myself, but things turned out differently. You can never tell how the die are going to fall, no matter how convinced you are. I'm not denying that sometimes relationships can blossom from such an early age but being so naive you can never see the future yourself.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by DarkMageOzzie

I'd just like to say how amusing I find it when everyone automatically go into "Oh it was a teenage relationship? Those are never important" mode. I find it amusing cause most the girls I knew in high school married their high school boyfriend and are still married to them. But at the same time I understand why such assumptions are made, teenagers do stupid shit.

How many is most?

I married my high school girlfriend but I am a rarity among the people I know.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Perhaps it depends on where you are at. Not until TWO DAYS AGO have I ever met a couple that married at a young age (and I think from high school) and are happy. I mean, I sit back and think of all the couples in high school that I knew of, and how I have not heard any of them survive. The CLOSEST is I THINK a friend of mine is dating the guy she met in high school ON and OFF.

I suppose (as I said before) that it depends on the person.

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If they married at 18 and are only 22 or something, give it time. Plenty of time for a terrible divorce and for them to hate each other.

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Originally Posted by Gumby

How many is most?

I married my high school girlfriend but I am a rarity among the people I know.

Just about every girl that I've run into that actually had a boyfriend back then. Which is like 4 or 5. Considering I don't see many people I knew in high school though that's a pretty high percentage.

Originally Posted by Forsety

If they married at 18 and are only 22 or something, give it time. Plenty of time for a terrible divorce and for them to hate each other.

If you were talking to me, I'm 27 so they'd be about the same age as me.

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