Changing your way of being...

I suppose I am a likable enough person, but it has never been my intent to increase my likability. On the whole, I believe myself to be abnormal and not always capable of understanding the motivations of others. The qualities that I cultivate within myself are those that I have considered to culminate in a better self overall, so a judgment of those qualities by another party rarely enters into my consideration.

I think it helps to understand that not everyone you meet will like you and may come to dislike you. The reasons behind their attitude towards you may not be rational, and it would be futile to tailor your behavior merely for the sake of extending some pretense. For the most part, it does not make sense to me to behave in such a way as to be based on irrationality.

Jam it back in, in the dark.