My mind is constantly changing about this guy....why?

Hi everyone,

I've this guy that liked me for almost a year now, but I had a b/f at that time and it took time for me to get over my b/f. Now I'm dating the guy that has liked me for a year and sometimes I like him and there are times I feel I don't like him in that way. The feeling would change back and fourth after a couple days. Why is this happening to me?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

It sounds like its taking a lot of effort for you to like him...maybe too much. He just may not be right for you.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Just keep is strictly as dating, not a relationship until your feelings stabilize about this person.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Most of the time when I dont' feel like I like him in that way is when I'm really stressed and frustrated about things that are happening in my life that isn't necessarily related to him. Is this normal?

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Its called a rebound relationship. Being cautious about your past exp/feelings toward this next guy after (a bad relationship?) can really deter from thinking straight.

I was speaking idiomatically.

You are experiencing a moment where you probably still have feelings for the person you once dated.

Or, you're dating him because you know he likes you, but you really don't like him and you wanted a companion that will be there for you. But, realize that you might not have the same feelings for him.

Or, after the breakup you had with your previous partner- you weren't ready to jump into another relationship, and needed time off before getting involved with another person in you life.

There could be many factors that you're probably experiencing. But, if you really like the person you're dating now; try to get to know him a little bit better to see if he's the one that you really want to be with. It takes time and you should not force yourself into liking a person that you have doubts.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Perhaps he is doing things that are causing you to have a conflict of interest. . . .And if you're still thinking about your ex, IMO it's not going to get much better.

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Maybe you are spending too much time with this person? I know that I get "sick" of some people after spending too much time with them...my feelings vacillate like that too with some people.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

i think he is your rebound and that you are more leaning on him for suport than a leading man position. you shouldnt be with someone if you like them only sometimes.

Jam it back in, in the dark.