What is cheating?

For me, flirting would only somewhat qualify as cheating if there was intent or strong desire to carry on a physical relationship with the other person. I tend to flirt a little, but it's really just friendly banter, and my boyfriend really doesn't care. He's an even bigger flirt than me, because that's just how his personality is. He's very social and friendly, and a little light flirting is just an easy way to break the ice with new people for him. As long as any flirting stays as just that, something to do for fun rather than something that leads to anything sexual, I think it's completely acceptable.

There's nowhere I can't reach.