Shy Guys

I'm certainly sociable, but I've noticed that a lot of the time i open up WAAAAY too much for the sake of getting a conversation going, which I realise is just utterly pathetic.

I scared off one girl I went out with because I kept talking about how pathetic my life was =/
That was years ago though.

There are times when girls talk to me because they want advice - so I'm one of those poor dudes that are relegated to 'friend' status really easily BECAUSE I open up, which is a shame if I have a thing for them.
At the same time though, I've been told that I can be really unpredictable and wild.

In other words, I've yet to find a balance that really works for me where I can be really outgoing, yet still not open up so easily. You know, at least try to keep some semblance of 'mystery' going lolol.

None of my friends are totally shy. They're sociable with guys and girls at least, which is good. They just have problems when it comes to girls they like. Other than that, they're totally fine.

Jam it back in, in the dark.