Sexual past.

Well, I think anyone will agree that you shouldn't be pressured into anything. Especially when it comes to sex. But when it comes to my girlfriend and her past, I really don't care what she's done. I've never been bothered by that sort of thing, and what he had done was pretty tame in my opinion. I don't get why people let shit like that get to them, it's not like they did any of it while they knew you, or worse, dating you. I figure, you can't control what's been done, so just forget about it and enjoy what you have now.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

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No need to pry, or even get worried over things like that, really.

If you're in a serious relationship, there's reason to pry.

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1. she didnt really want to do it. she is just too insecure (or something) to say no. she is easy as hell to manipulate, because she is deathly afraid of making people unhappy.

low self-esteem. It's a lot of work to build it back up, and even then it might still be low. Good luck with that.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

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I suppose it could be a case-by-case thing, but I probably wouldn't randomly ask my partner about their sex lives unless, as I said, they have a disease or are mentally scarred by it.

It's all about trust.

You don't have to randomly ask "lol so i herd u gave head," it should eventually come up in conversation. It's not one of those "on a need-to-know basis" kinda things, it's something your partner should know. I can't think of any reason why anyone would want to hide it from the person they're in love with and plan to spend a considerable amount of their time with.

As for that last part, you say it like you can't possibly be curious about such things without being underhandedly motivated. You're not being untrusting, you're simply taking an interest. There's a big difference.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

I have to agree that it could very well be a mind-game. But I doubt it since it's very, very possible. Especially when she seems to be depressed and has some serious self-esteem issues. It could go either way though, she could either be telling the truth, or looking for pity in that "O WOE IS ME" sort of way.

And it shouldn't be very hard to figure out which it is. If it's the latter, forget about her. She'll always be "depressed", and you're just feeding into it.

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