friends with benefits could turn into...something more serious?

Sucks that what we want to hear, the majority of the time, is the furthest from the truth.

Originally Posted by ComradeTande

we've only done it once, and besides that, we still hang out and have fun times outside of sexual things.
=\ so its not entirely about sex.

Well, being a friend with benefits isn't strictly about sex. It can be a whole lot of shit, what others would see from the outside and think "relationship," while in all actuality there is no commitment. Maybe you love/like this dude, you're emotionally involved, while he just wants someone to hold every once in a while, sex, etc., and that's that. Possibly so that you fill an empty space in his life until the day comes that he finds a girl he actually wants a relationship with. Then you're history. This is why this sort of thing can never work, most women would never be able to handle it.

But if you really like the guy and don't mind keeping things the way they are now maybe one day he'll see reason? =OOO

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Also, Alice, don't make her sound like a victim. She's a good person and all, but this has been entirely her decision.

There's nowhere I can't reach.