Hardwired in the Core

Originally Posted by x86

SMX: For me, those called casual (throw-away relationships, one-night stands and so on) are a big no-no.
When you enter in a relationship, you should be interested in knowing someone else, not knowing yourself. If you want to know yourself, that's what introspection is for! .

I think you are totally misunderstanding what SMX meant with what he said.

Those 'flings' or 'casual realtionships' are very important in learning about yourself and other people. I've been in many relationships and about 4 of them have been very passionate and longterm; although most of them have been short lived and a good learning experience. Not everyone is all about dating casually, I understand that; but what happens when you do finally hook up with who you think is your dream girl and she doesn't think your her dream guy? Simply because you may not have picked up the know-how.

Jam it back in, in the dark.