Feb 24, 2008, 10:38 PM
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I wouldn't trust my bank info to anyone unless our finances were legally tied, although I do know my boyfriend's ATM pin (he doesn't know mine).
One time I got a major-league bug up my ass about his private journal entries, and pestered him to let me read them. He had previously made a big deal about how he never so much as grouses to me to even his closest friends, which I found out wasn't true - it was immature high school shit, you know how that goes. I also found out that he basically acted around his friends the way sixteen year olds do, which kind of skeezed me out. I sort of knew it was happening though, from other things I've found that wouldn't be considered private.
My reason for getting that bug in my butt was because I felt like he wasn't being open with me about a lot of things, and it turned out that he wasn't, and there were some valid reasons for it, and it was otherwise part of his personality. If I got to that point again in a relationship, I think I would rather break it off, to be honest, than monitor emails.
The only thing I use email for is work-related and ocassionally buying overpriced shit on the internet. I wouldn't give anyone my password but I'd let them read it. I do all my conversing over instant messages, chat and shit like that - I wouldn't care if anyone read the public shit and I don't save logs for the private shit.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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