Relationship Advice...

Each person's opinion is different. However, make sure you do not have your opinion and values swayed by another's. From what I have read, you are wavering back and forth. On something such as this, you should not be wavering. You need more time to think this out (which you seem to have decided on which is good). Time is something you have. If your boyfriend does not understand this, then that is his problem. I know that's an easy to say mentality, but hard to act out, but given your thoughts, feelings and concerns (along with some things other members have mentioned), it is the best at this point (in my opinion).

How ya doing, buddy?