Sexual past.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

You deserve a hug for this.

I take a different perspective, though. I think she says shit like that to tug at your emotions, to feel bad for her, to like her.

Sounds like a mind game to me. Women do that a lot. Girls are rookies and don't know how to play effectively until they get older and wiser.

Exactly what I was going to say, but you said it better.

janus, this type of thing is inborn in us. Women know how to manipulate you by telling you what you want to hear, and we're very good at it, no matter how little self-esteem we have or how depressed we are. It doesn't surprise me at all that you believe her. And also, that whole thing about her dating the guy because he reminded her of you? Come on. She's workin' it, and workin' it good.

(Ladies, we'll never convince him.)

Jam it back in, in the dark.