Shy Guys

I don't mind a quiet, thoughtful guy, but if a guy is "shy" due to a lack of confidence, that's pretty much the biggest turn-off imaginable.

I also don't care for the overly-aggressive type, either. I guess I prefer a happy medium where the guy is confident, but not bossy and loud and in your face about it.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Also, it can be downright embarrassing in certain situations if the guy you're with completely clams up around other people. I have zero tolerance for people who can't at least be sociable.

My husband is the quiet type, but I've never seen him cower or act like he believes he isn't good enough to open his mouth and speak if he has something worthwhile to say.

And Sass is right: Being shy doesn't serve any real purpose. There's nothing to be gained by being shy, but being outgoing can get you anywhere.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

Man, you're on a roll this week.

Don't worry. I'll say something soon that'll piss you off. =p

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.