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To get more on subject, this is why a lot of people recommend first moving in with your potential spouse and living together a while to see if you can stand one another. The acid test comes once the novelty of sex wears off, and you both get over your crush. That's when your partner's annoying personal habits really get noticeable.
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although, when a couple moves in together there are a lot of things that become easier (paying rent, sharing house duties, having someone physically present when you get home, etc.), making it actually HARDER to break up.
moving in first definitely has the "testing the waters" advantage, but it also has so much weight and commitment attached that there's this "well, we've been living together, and i'd rather deal with you than deal with the trouble of moving, splitting furniture, etc.".
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