Help with a girl at work

Taking advice from Rainman about women is like offering rub-on tattoos at the Holocaust Museum - its just not something a person with a functioning synapse would do.

That aside - you already have this girl into you, which is most of the fight right there. Just say to her "Let me take you out on a date". Don't say "We should hang" because thats passive aggressive and you're both going to wonder if its a date or not. Say its a fucking date and be done with it. Go out for coffee, something small. If you're old enough, take her to a *nice* bar and have a few drinks.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

I once was asked to be taken to a bar. Maybe it's 'cause I'm a fattie, but I never take men up on offers of drinks. It seems too.....in your face. But that's me. I am sure a lot of women aren't like that.

Casual drinks help you start get to know someone.

They also let you learn how much of a lightweight the girl is - take that anyway you want.

There's nowhere I can't reach.