How old is too old?

Originally Posted by David4516

What I am asking is this: do you believe that someone can reach an age where it is no longer normal to be a virgin? If so, when?

Society wants you to stop being a Virgin at 18. Teens about 16 and Adults about 20 so it averages to 20.

But I'd say. No. Many people constantly make fun of virgins because that person themself needs sex because they can't wait. The kind of people who make fun of virgins are usually the people who need sex to be able to look themselves in the mirror.

Since that person needs sex, they think "I know they must need it too"....which leads to..."They must not be able to get any, that must be it!"....which gets followed up by harassing.

So you see, that's actually the reason people harass virgins...becaue they feel that you pretty much need sex because they do. And if you haven't got any than they figure you must have a problem because they need it.

I personally don't think there really is an age where you're too old to be a virgin. I'll even give you a handshake for not following the sex crazed crowd.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Duo Maxwell

Yeah, because you know, anyone who has sex is automatically sex crazed.

The Vast majority are.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by a lurker

You think you're special because you keep your legs closed and spend your Fridays alone. Compared to your kind, everyone is sex-crased.

Do you seriously believe the majority of people aren't sex crazed? Does that make you feel a little better about the world?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

A question for some of the people in this thread.

How old is too old to not have an STD? Since the sex is so good to keep risking getting it. How old should I be to have my first STD?

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

So, I have no clue what I'm talking about, eh?..or possibly you just don't agree with what I'm saying.

And this all started because I made that "the Vast Majority of people are sex crazed" comment, eh?

Just a question for you, a lurker. What's your definition on 'sex crazed'? (This question isn't meant to start or continue a fight either)

I was speaking idiomatically.

1. No, you didn't really answer the question. You just tried to avoid the question.

2. If it's making you uncomfortable, then why do you keep posting in the topic.

3. You really don't know what "speaking out of your ass" is. I still stand by my original post that started this in the first place. I'm curious to know if you just read the "Vast majority are sex crazed" part or if you actually read what I posted before it as well.

Just so you know, it's not that hard to figure out the Human mind and what the body craves. Physiology has always been a nice interest of mine. It's not that hard to pick up on human being's reactions to things such as sex.

Of course, why am I actually putting up this conversation with someone with a typical response like

Quote:

"The people who say that do not know what they are missing, and it is hilariously obvious."

I'm so totally hurt.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by a lurker

Reading the science articles in Time magazine for three years does not make you much of an expert in behavior. Otherwise perhaps you would not think that the vast majority of people are sex-craved and that virgins have exceptional self-control.

And no. I'll explain why I believe this. You're not comprehending what I'm saying correctly.

(In this, we'll assume that person has not masturbated either)

A person who constantly has sex is going to be accustomed to the feeling, no? When you first have sex (as well as masturbating), it's like opening up a new doorway.

If your body is ignorant to an orgasm feeling then it cannot crave it like a person who's already had the feeling one or more times. Your body will eventually become accustomed to the feeling and want more to get sexual satisfaction. You'll need to do more and more to satisfy your body's urges. (Which starts the sex craze cycle)

That's why I said the majority of people are sex crazed because many had already had a sexual experience (such as masturbation) to trigger the cycle. Much like Drugs addictions...if you've be "crackin" it up for some years and try to stop, you get withdrawals because your body craves the feeling again.

Okay, so how did I do? Was I too loose on something or did I clarify enough?

FELIPE NO

a lurker, what's the point of even communicating with you? Two-thirds of your posts are just insults and attempts to belittle me.

You think my definition of sex-crazed is hilarious (even though you avoided giving your definition) and I really don't agree with your statements. There's no good reason why a great deal of people value their self-worth by how much they get laid. There's so many people with false self-esteem in this country.

You're going to think your way and I'm going to think my way. What's the point of going on with this if you're not going to even consider what I'm saying and just dismiss it.

a lurker, please give me one more insult for the road.

Originally Posted by Duo Maxwell

I think Bill Maher said it best, "America needs to get laid." Since soniclover probably has no real solid information about sex outside of what he's been taught in this shithole of an education system we have in this country, I don't really hold his ignorance against him.

Go America!

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

How exactly are you guys getting the idea that I meant "Virgins have more self control"?

I meant, virgins don't know the feeling of sex so their body doesn't know the feeling of it (unless you masturbate, which gives your body a taste).

Did I say something about self-control? I said that your body is ignorant to the sexual feeling so it can't crave it like someone who has actually felt it.

It's not a matter of self-control. It's a matter of what your body is accustomed to.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Tell that to Madonna



She has all of her teeth but we wish she would learn she's too old to attempt to be sexy. Madonna, please get off of the Dance Floor.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by a lurker

You keep insisting that people who've had sex are sex-crazed, and the corollary being that those who haven't are not crazed. Look, please stop repeating yourself.

I merely said that once you have sex it's like opening up a new doorway for you body...whoops I'm repeating myself again. Of course, I wouldn't have to repeat myself if you would stop insisting things.

Originally Posted by a lurker

our argument has some logic to it, but it's very elementary at best, and ignores reality. Everyone who has had physical contact with their genitals, even if it's just wearing jeans or a spontaneous boner, knows that touching down there feels good. You don't need to make a mess of yourself to know that. I mean christ, do you honestly think most people start masturbating because they know what an orgasm feels like already, or because their buddies told them how awesome it'd feel? I was a teenager, once, and I have never had friends so close that they'd tell me something like that. Perhaps your friends are extremely creepy. I don't know.

Um...since when did we start talking about why people are having sex and other sexual pleasures?

Originally Posted by a lurker

Since you keep begging me to be your online dictionary, my definition of sex-crazed is having such an overwhelming lust that it interferes with your day-to-day life. This, obviously, is not trust for the overwhelming majority of people. Your friends might talk a lot about it, but they're still able to go to school without masturbating frequently or feeling up the freshmen between classes. This is because most people are mature enough to know when and where sexual stimulation is appropriate.

Well, that makes a lot of since. After reading that, I can see my statement as being radical. I guess I have a really unrealistic view of being sex-crazed.

Originally Posted by a lurker

Your only proof is that "it feels good and people will want to do it more often." One time I found out how good it felt to scratch my feet on cheap, abrasive carpeting; I am not a carpet addict, a slave to itchy feet.

So you say, Scratch feet, so you say...

Originally Posted by a lurker

I can only assume that you feel the way you do about sex from a combination of an upbringing that strongly discourages sex and masturbation, and from having extremely strong sexual urges. I can't think of any other reason why a virgin who was only aware of his genitals for the past four years would have such extreme views of sex. So I'll repeat my question; do you honestly think that your sex drive will never change, or that it can only change for the worse?

Well, I did grow up in an environment where sex and masturbation is frowned upon so that's most likely the reason everything I'm saying seems so exaggerated. Growing up in an Old Fashioned Baptist church and having your mother pound her old fashioned ways into you is bound to affect your frame of mind somehow.

Okay, that's it from me. I have a limit to how much I can debate before I just don't want to anymore. (Which is why I'm not on the debate team)

You surprising gave me a lot to think about, a lurker. I want to personally thank you for the enlightenment, seriously. We all need a reality check every once in a while.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.