How should I tell this bitch of a woman off?

Personally, I find it rather creepy that he would still be talking about you to this day. I would actually hope that it was because your friend was still bringing you up, otherwise that's a rather unhealthy oppsession that the "teacher's assistant" has picked up.

Anyway, and this is of course only talking from my point of view of course, I would drift toward the "forget option." I think most can attest to having some horror stories of this nature with some of their own high school friends. Yet another reason, in fact, why a lot of high school friendships simply don't last, sadly.

However, I don't know how close the friendship was. Everyone has different ranks for "levels of friendships", and I know there would be some of my friends that, against better logic or even their current wishes, I would try my best to patch things up despite consequences. If you wouldn't consider her one of these people, though, then you should probably let this chapter in her life play out and let her figure out in the long run if the choice she has made was in fact the wrong one.

How ya doing, buddy?