Connection with exhuastion and being single?

Originally Posted by Ayos

"Better words," probably not. Longer, boring, and more specific, yeah... but yours was more concise, which is actually "better" for most people. But I do agree - being in a relationship can wear you out. All my free time (and there's not much of it!) is dedicated solely to my girlfriend when I'm with someone.

By the way, if after you've tried all that and you've gotten the girl's phone number, and you're wondering how to proceed (e.g. how to get a date without screwing up the foundation you just laid, how to get into a RELATIONSHIP from here, etc.) just say so... I've got tons of this stuff, and trust me, it works wonders - and I haven't even begun to scratch the surface.

One important thing to note with the energy thing... even if you're exhausted, be energetic and passionate about everything you do. The reason girls love bad-boy stereotypes is because everything is an ADVENTURE with them, it's always exciting, even if it's something mundane like going to the grocery store. Which is actually a fun thing to do - tell a girl you're going shopping, and she should come with you, it'll be fun, it'll be an adventure. And then you're both so excited by the time you get there that you can't help but have fun, joking about other people in the store, throwing random items at each other/in the cart... just let loose.

Because you just know trying to find a girlfriend is as formulaic as deriving an equation in calculus. Input the right questions and you get the desired response. Have you been playing too many dating sims recently??

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Ayos

I'll go ahead and assume that you're simply saying that no certain question or statement works all the time with every girl. Which I'll accept. Pickup lines are just about the worst idea in the world. The idea I'm trying to get across is the ATTITUDE behind it.

Although, I will go on record and say this... not only has this EXACT STUFF I posted worked EVERY SINGLE TIME (which has been MANY, not few) but it's also worked EVERY SINGLE TIME for other guys that I've suggested it to.

Can I tell him exactly what to say in order to get himself a girlfriend? Hell no. But I can definitely give him some examples that will convey the proper attitude, and raise his chances above those he would have if he was just your boring, everyday "nice guy" (or as some women would say "wussy") ... I'm speaking from overwhelming repeat successful experience here, I'm not just assuming based off of one or two relationships.

<RAZGRIZ-2> someone should just make me a "AND YOU WONDER WHY YOU DON'T HAVE A GF DUMBASS" macro
<RAZGRIZ-2> and mods should look the other way when i post it


Man, I <3 chat.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Ayos

But hey... let's go documentary-style. I'll go find each of those women, kiss them and take a picture of it, one right after the other, and post them here.

I'm calling your bluff. You have one month to take said pictures and make a journal on it.

Drop your track or leave GFF forever.

[Edit] Dev says the girls can't be ugly or fat.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by The Wise Vivi

In one way, I could said this is getting out of hand... in another way, I really want to see what is going to happen here.

Hmmm.... maybe my honesty makes me seem, not so exciting...

Listen up, after meeting you I can acertain that you are an alright looking guy and easy to chat with. Just stop thinking asking a girl out for coffee is such a huge deal because it really isn't. Stop wondering if each girl is your potential future girlfriend and just focus on getting to know them. If you meet one and there is a spark, it might develop otherwise it might not. Just don't try to force things.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?