friends with benefits could turn into...something more serious?

Tande, I know this came up in #concerthall. (funny the things we chat about in there)

I know you say you like being 'used' because you want to feel loved, but your relationship will not go beyond where it is now. Your buddy Tyler most likely just felt like having sex with someone. Besides, if he really wanted a relationship, he'd have been pursuing you since this is what guys do when they want a girlfriend.


Despite what you feel, it is probably in your best interest to slot him under the 'friends' category and go shop for a decent guy, if you'd like a boyfriend. I hear Juanzen is a pretty good guy.

Well, I'm not saying anything that anyone else didn't say, but I have to say I agree with them. You can do better, and you should.

Jam it back in, in the dark.