Build a Relationship / Becoming Less Boring

Becoming less boring... I've had a lame internal struggle with this my whole life. In every situation I'd always feel like I had nothing of interest to contribute, could do nothing to hold anyone's attention, and was just generally not an exciting or worthwhile person to be around.

But man, sitting there in the moment silently worrying that you're a boring douchebag is what makes you a boring douchebag. The trick is to stop giving a fuck what anybody thinks, what your girlfriend thinks, what your friends and people at parties think. Instead of reading relationship books INDULGE in something. Read some James Joyce for godsakes. Sing and dance like a fool whenever you feel like it, say whatever silly little thing comes in to your head, go fly a kite. Just be honest with yourself.

just be yourself

Jam it back in, in the dark.