Friends with Benefits... Yay or Nay?

First off, stop signing your posts. It makes you look stupid.

Second, no-strings attached relationships work great, so long as they're exactly that. And actually, in my experience, a lot of times it's the guy, not the girl, who gets jealous and possessive and fucks everything up. The second you feel the slightest inkling of emotional attachment, or even just jealousy, you have to tell her. It's part of the deal. So long as everyone is constantly aware of just what the status of the relationship is, it'll never be a problem.

These relationships, even more than traditional ones, demand open communication.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Hachifusa

russ, he's only interested for ten years down the road.

Incidentally, joe, stop listening to the seasoned pros around here: these kind of situations, like Sassafrass said, require a lot of open communication. They also require such a large amount of maturity levels on both/all sides (taking other types of "beneficial" relationships into account) that if you're considering one as a kid, it's time to drop the idea. At this point, just have random one-night-stands, instead.

Sassafrass hasn't posted in this thread, you putz. You clearly mean me, and you'd do well never to confuse the two of us again.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Not even remotely, mate. One night stands are generally with a non-friend. A friend with benefits is regular sex with no relationship, usually with, you know, a friend.

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I think friends with benefits stems from two people who want to cum on each other but don't want to date. Whether because they know it won't work, or because they're not looking to be tied down.

Look, this isn't rocket science.

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Originally Posted by Baked Pussy

I would agree completely. Not loving a person and just having sex with no emotions is very awkward. There's just a gap.

Ok, first, stop using stupid smilies in every post. It severely undermines any point you're trying to make.

And no, having sex with no emotions is NOT very awkward. It's very awkward if you need emotions for sex, or if one person is emotionally invested and the other isn't. You're talking in bad movie terms. Love = sex. No love = no sex. That's not the real world. To consenting adults can have many wonderful orgasms and not need to make a federal case out of it. Your morals are not the world's morals. So no, it's not awkward. It's awkward for YOU.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Throwdown

Well...There is a problem with friends with benefits. Each person could have multiple sex with many other people b/c neither feeling committed to each other. And with all the oozing of pelvic goo beware the mighty gonosyphilherpalaids.

Yeah, sex with lots of people. No way to take precautions there.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by Throwdown

Whoops sorry I forgot a condom is like holy barrier and no one will get a STD while wearing one. My-bad.

Yes, because let's avoid anything with a .1% risk involved for fear that something bad could possibly (very unlikely) happen. Best get back into lying in bed and staring at your ceiling in horror.

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