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I read both your topics but I'll only post my answer in here.

Do you have any hobbies/interests/stuff that you like to do on your own? If not, find some and let your girl join in them. The best way to get closer to another is to do activities together, things that you and the girl want to do. Take her out to the movies, take a walk, go to a concert, take her out for exercising etc etc. Make some physical contact with the girl while you're having fun and see if she moves away. If she does, try again later and see if she'll react differently. If you're at a party you shouldn't sit still too much 1 on 1 with the girl because in the end you will run out of subjects to talk about, bring the girl with you, talk with all kinds of people at the party and do some crazy stuff together, that will help loosening up and you won't be needing that much to talk about neither. And you shouldn't be afraid of taking it easy and not saying too much, just stay at ease and go with the flow, show your confidence, then it usually works out. Most likely she's damn nervous as well so if you just take it easy and show that you're easy to be around it'll work in your favor.

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