Shy Guys

Originally Posted by Fyodor D.

Barring feminazis, women want men who can lead them. It is as simple as that.

Fuck that noise. I want a man who won't lead me. And I ain't no motherfuckin' feminazi - complete opposite. (I am actually a traditionalist regarding women's roles. Did you know? =o )

I think that a shy guy is tolerable, so long as he's not so shy that it impedes upon his social life or how he interacts with others. I am an extremely out-going, extraverted person, and its a nice compliment to my personality to have a shy guy. (Otherwise, we'd likely butt heads a lot)

But yea, like Alice, I don't want a guy who is shy because he's not confident enought o have an opinion. I want whomever is around me to have defined opinions about things - whether or not they agree with mine.

Shy doesn't get you as far as outgoing does.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

Also, it can be downright embarrassing in certain situations if the guy you're with completely clams up around other people. I have zero tolerance for people who can't at least be sociable.

Man, you're on a roll this week.

I couldn't agree more. I know I've been in situations where the guy is letting me do all the socializing and talking, where I don't really ENJOY it, but someone has to fucking get up and do it.

I know Pang tends to be more shy and quiet in a social setting. But he's usually calculating in his head - you can almost see the wheels of his mind turning.

I think it intimidates a lot of people, really. Which discourages them from talking to him in any really substantial way.

There's nowhere I can't reach.