Go-kart track, grocery store, those remote control boats...

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Mar 2006

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Oct 24, 2006, 10:06 PM
Local time: Oct 24, 2006, 09:06 PM
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I don't think that would really apply to this guy's situation.
So basically you're in a pretty difficult situation here, in that you are looking for something serious, but she isn't. She is willing to date, but not to commit to anything serious, which would not satisfy you if you were to date her casually. But at the same time, if she starts dating some other guy casually and they hit it off and decide to get more serious, you have possibly missed a good opportunity.
Basically, you need to ask her out with the good old "Look, I'm not asking you to marry me, I'm just asking to pay for your meal" line. Maybe you two go out in a date scenario, you charm her any way you can, and she realizes that hey, maybe the two of you crazy kids might have some good times together. Maybe the two of you casually date for a while, and maybe eventually it grows to something more serious. If you are as patient as you say you are, casually dating shouldn't be a big problem.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
I didn't say I wouldn't go fishin' with the man.
All I'm sayin' is, if he comes near me, I'll put him in the wall.
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