No call, No show

Usually, that's what people do at a really shitty job, but what happens when it's in your personal life?

This happened to me tonight, as I was set to hang out with a very cool girl tonight, I waited, called, etc. and got no response.

We'd gone out on a date on friday night, and had a blast. Walked around Barnes and Nobles, went to a diner, hung out until after four o'clock in the morning. It's possibly the best date I'd ever been on, we were just having one hell of a time talking, laughing, etc. She asked me if I'd wanted to do it again some time, and after a few minutes of figuring out when would be good with both of us, we decided to hang out on sunday(tonight).

Saturday, I get a text message from her saying she had a really nice time on friday, and that she'd call me today, I text her back telling her I did to, and I can't wait to hear from her.

And then, silence. I called her a few times, left a message, and sent a text(not all together at the same time, waited a few hours between the two messages, etc.) And I haven't heard back from her.

I'm actually worried I might have done something stupid(the self-doubt factor), or maybe she just came to her senses and decided to distance herself from me quickly(once again, self doubt), or worst case scenario something bad happened and she's preoccupied with a family/personal emergency.

Anyway, I'm looking for advice on this, and I'd also like to know what everyone out there does when something like this happens to them(if it has).

(edit: can a mod throw this in the advice column, as I thought that's where I was posting it. Sorry about that.)

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Just to update on the situation, she was out of town saturday with family and hadn't gotten home until late sunday evening, at which time she did call me back. We had a pretty long conversation and it was actually pretty nice. We rescheduled for tuesday(last night), and went out for dinner with each other.

Btw, if you're ever in Jersey, there's a Mexican place called Chevy's, and it is quite delicious.

Anyhow, we ate dinner, went back to her place and hung out for most of the night. And for once, the shut-in Ninja has a date for New Year's Eve. Wahoo.

I really appreciate all the advice everyone threw my way, and while I might be a little insecure, I've never once been deemed clingy..usually stand-offish. I don't socialize very well, unless I'm in comfortable surroundings, so social norms don't exactly come natural..so when something like this happens, I tend to look for advice from my more socially adept friends.

Anywho, its going really well, from what I can tell, and we've made a date for this saturday, to go to this park that's around my place apparently, and possibly see a movie, or go walking through an old town/new-age sort of place.

Once again, thanks for the advice, and I'm glad I didn't come off as a stalkeratzi type of person to this incredible girl. Keep up the good advice giving.

-Ninja

There's nowhere I can't reach.