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Originally Posted by valiant
Well it could be unfortunate...for example if a shy guy opens up, it can turn off the girl for he "opens up." So umm...what next <_<?
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I would think, to get to that point, they would have had to of spent some time together which made that person feel ready to be more open. By that time the two would probably have a good understanding of each other, so hopefully they will of developed some strong foundations. Otherwise if the two didn't find anything about eachother that they especially liked or if they didn't get along/found enough things in common then it probably wasn't meant to be anyway.
I think alot of the time its about trust. If the person finds they can be themself with that person, warts and all, and they still like them. Then that shy aspect may fall away as they become comfortable with the person.
Not true always of course.
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