Relationship Advice...

Dark, how old are you?

Personally, I lost my virginity at 18 to a guy who broke up with me 3 weeks later. It hurt (emotionally, not phsyically) at the time, but now, I find that I don't regret it too much. It happened. And I was (and still am) one of those girls that takes sex very seriously.

I can't say that this will happen for everyone, but I figure that the reason that guy happened was basically to get me used to sex, so it didnt bother me as much. You figure, its gotta happen sometime, so if it does, as long as you're comfortable with it, take it as a learning experience.

And for god's sake, get on birth control if you're not already. Don't take any chances.

Jam it back in, in the dark.