Friends with benefits

I guess I'm in the "there's no such thing as a platonic friendship" thing. And usually with the case of friends with benefits, someone is going to get hurt. I've never been in one so I can't say from experience.

One question you should ask yourself is do you like her enough to pursue something more? And ask her that too. To a lot of people, sex makes partners grow even more attached, so take that as a warning.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by bioeng

To think, in some alternate universe, he and I would be having wild, hot sex right about now. Ha!

It's not too late.

Originally Posted by bioeng

During that week, (when we were going out) I've gotten attached to him and having the relationship demoted soon afterwards was, best said, confusing. I had to thread carefully, severing all ties seemed a tad overkill. Next week, I'm off from work/college. That's probably the best time for me to tell him I just want us to remain close friends. I'm just glad that there's no animosity between us: We still plan on hanging out, watching a flik, etc.

Since you feel more than he does, maybe being a friends with benefits thing is not so special to him. You might end up getting hurt in the end, especially since it's just a weeklong fling.

Also since he brought it up, it seems like he doesn't want to get into a relationship but you do. Personally for me I wouldn't give it to the guy unless he feels the same way.

There's nowhere I can't reach.