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Member 1285
Level 26.51
Mar 2006
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Jun 2, 2007, 02:25 AM
Local time: Jun 2, 2007, 02:25 AM
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Based on your first post, it sounds like you're hung up on him because he's basically your first everything (kiss, relationship, most likely sex I assume). And you want to prolong a hopeful serious relationship with him. Sounds like the dude is just using you. Labeling yourself as a friend with benefits isn't something to be happy about (unless you want it that way), but it is clear that you don't. He says he doesn't want to commit, and that's just a big red flag to me. I say that to guys I don't like all the time.
My advice is to either bring up the subject of the relationship with him, asking him if he wants to get together again. If yes, hoorah. If no, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and hopefully some that will treat and respect you as more than a cuddle buddy on drunken nights.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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Dee