Dec 2, 2006, 06:58 AM
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Finding someone you can actually be yourself with is great. As far as I am concerned, if you can't be yourself and relax with someone, then the relationship (even if it kind of works) is destined to fail. As Mojougwe stated, it is matter of sharing common interests and values with a person. My girlfriend is one of my best friends, and that's a new experience for me.
I probably obsessed over everyone I dated until I was in my late twenties. Then I guess I realised it's just not working for me. I decided to take a break from relationships... which lasted over a year. The next time I found someone, it was a new experience for me. She sought me out, and it's a healthy relationship that we have. I'm not obsessed with her. I don't spend all my time worrying about what might go wrong, or what I should be doing for the best. As you say, I've been going with the flow.
It already lasted longer than any other serious relationship I've been in.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
Last edited by Soluzar; Dec 2, 2006 at 07:02 AM.
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Soluzar