What should I do?

That's one messed up situation you got there, mack. Being a girl myself and hearing all these damn horror stories of girls gone wonky in the head and having to resort to doing that stuff is a little weird. I mean, I am rather straightforward with my motives and stuff just so that everything is clear and there are no complications such as the one that you have. Her lying like that is cowardly and stupid. I say just cut her out of your life. She makes you bend over backwards for her only to have her turn around and say she doesn't want what you can provide? That's BS. You don't need people like that messing with your head.

Echoing the sentiments of Sassafrass at the end of her entry as well.

TC

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by lkaerus

Indeed I do. And I did. here's what's really getting to me.. i'm basically removed her from my life (i'm still hanging out with her best friend though.. kinda starting to like her too) but she(my ex) will instant message me if i'm on AIM or call me and be like ""Why can't I get ahold of Kris!?!?!" and try to bitch at me because she can't get ahold of him... so i stopped answering the phone.. and this bitch shows up at my house at 3 AM comes in my back door and I wake up and she's next to me in my bed crying...
WTF?!?

okay I'm sorry if this sounds mean but:
a) block her from your IM. not that hard to do.
b) block her from your phone: call the phone company and make sure that her number cannot reach you and reaches some random warehouse place.
c) LOCK YOU'RE BACK DOOR... did you give her the spare keys to your house?? change the locks if so! Or if your back door has no lock then INSTALL one. omg... this girl is like --- just CREEPY. *shakes head*

Can't believe people would go to such lengths...

There's nowhere I can't reach.