Lola is exaggerating, you don't really have to act like an ass. But acting like a pussy is much worse.

Girls (especially cute girls) don't care about looks much, and they certainly don't want their boyfriend to be their therapist, or their supporter. They got girlfriends for that.

What they want is unpredictability, excitement, a challenge. Being an ass is closer to those qualities than being a lapdog.

Yeah, I totally agree. You never know when you might run into somebody that'll just blow you away. I certainly didn't expect to fall for my current girlfriend. Just keep your eyes open and enjoy life regardless of whether you're single or not, you're bound to meet somebody.

Hey I didn't mean just be an ass, I said attitude!
I mean I rather hang out with guys that has some personality and has some distinct likes and dislikes and has a fine opinon. But that doesn't mean I like a guy who debates everything on everything. (If you know what I mean)

Being single is a great time to polish yourself, so go out and do stuff.