Girlfriend broke up with me...

to start dating a close friend of mine not even 2 days after the breakup.

I never abused her. We had a good relationship. I put time and effort into her.

Then suddenly she became distant. We broke up. /story

I just need advice on how to deal. My goal is to be at peace with it; I know that this action on both of their parts makes them not worthy of staying in my life, but I can't stop obsessing about it. Throwing them out of my life will be a staple, sure, but the whole logic behind doing such a thing just blows my mind. Any psych majors here to help me out?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

So your solution to being unable to hold a relationship together is to cut two people out of your life, and you want the psych majors to explain THEIR behavior?

There's nowhere I can't reach.

She might have lost her feelings for you and rebounded with your friend. She might also be a giant ho looking for some d.

Either way I don't see why you have to never talk to either one of them again or obsess over it.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

I'd give them some space until you cool off, that's for sure. Hanging around with them right now is only going to cause resentment. You'll hate her for the betrayal. You'll hate him for being everything you couldn't be.

Maybe she's just young, doesn't really know what she wants and has to shop around to discover what that truly is.

Maybe you only think you had a good relationship because YOU got everything YOU wanted out of it.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

You'll do yourself a lot of good if you learn that there doesn't need to be somebody at fault for a relationship to fail.

Either that or it's always her fault. You know, one of the two.

I was speaking idiomatically.

You usually can't reason break-ups so don't tear yourself apart trying. Whatever the "why" is, the end result is still the same so just try to accept the reality of the situation.

I would stay away from both of them for the time being because you're obviously not ready to engage in any sort of friendship with either of them. You'll end up obsessing and resenting them so it's best to just move on with your life.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

is only a little girl, apparently it is wrong if she did it without thinking, but if she did thinking about you (because he's your friend) then she is worse, quiet, everything will end, buy a good game and look as many times forget it, there are people who can not be just friends.

FELIPE NO

Originally Posted by Paulina's Ashes

is only a little girl, apparently it is wrong if she did it without thinking, but if she did thinking about you (because he's your friend) then she is worse, quiet, everything will end, buy a good game and look as many times forget it, there are people who can not be just friends.

Maris?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Always remember this one thing about women: Even on their best day, they are full of shit.

Just like you're full of shit, even on your best day.

Relationships don't materialize out of thin air. If she got with your boy 2 days after she broke it off with you then likely she's been talking to him for at least 2 weeks trying to determine whether or not he was a suitable mate for her.

What does that mean? Two things. Bitch was already looking for your replacement long before you suspected anything was wrong. Secondly, your boy, who almost certainty knew you were with her, was trying to get in ya girl's drawers.

What would I do? Fuck 'em both. You don't need 'em, nor should you want 'em. You now know that both of these people are completely non-trustworthy. Your friend moreso than the female.

Honestly, people have been killed for far less.

Just being real.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Devo

Ignore women.

Acquire wealth.

And that, my friend, is real.

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by Devo

Ignore women.

Acquire wealth.

Sage advice there.

If she was the kind of person to leave you suddenly then I would take upon the viewpoint that she was undeserving of being together with myself, but that is merely my take on this situation. Indeed, you probably have enough troubles without a woman adding to your difficulties, so you might consider yourself released of a burden now.

To summarize:


This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.