What do guys notice in a girl?

That's why the best way to be is to have no sense of fashion and not even be able to identify designed clothes. Then there's no way you'll be intimidated by them!

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

Guys who are intimidated by a girl's looks are too shallow for their own good.

Either that or they themselves are pig-ugly. I can imagine that for munters, approaching someone good looking could be intimidating as you know that right off the bat they're unlikely to give you the time of day. Any of the resident ugly brigade care to confirm/deny this?

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

Flara, from your picture, I'd agree that you're a pretty girl. But hardly unapproachable. I've yet to meet the girl who's too pretty, or too well dressed for me to talk to. It's just talking. And if I never ask a gorgeous, well dressed girl to join me for a drink, I'll never wind up dating a gorgeous, well-dressed girl, now will I? Guys who are intimidated by a girl's looks are too shallow for their own good.

Thanks~ so I guess it's not my problem that I'm good looking lol

Originally Posted by RAZGRIZ-3

That's why the best way to be is to have no sense of fashion and not even be able to identify designed clothes. Then there's no way you'll be intimidated by them!

no sense of fashion scares me.............

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Flara

Thanks~ so I guess it's not my problem that I'm good looking lol

Though, Flara, to be fair... you're an asian in America. You immediately get the Team Asian guys running to you on principle. I have seen some absolute munters get good looking cats because they're asian. It's ridiculous.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

Though, Flara, to be fair... you're an asian in America. You immediately get the Team Asian guys running to you on principle. I have seen some absolute munters get good looking cats because they're asian. It's ridiculous.

I live in Canada btw
maybe it's because i go to school with 500 chicks.... (I major in Fashion Design)

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Originally Posted by Flara

no sense of fashion scares me.............

That's the beauty of it; now the shoe's on the other foot, and you're too afraid to talk to me.

Edit: America, Canada, whatever. The point is you're an Asian on another continent where like 60% of guys are rice chasers. In retrospect, 60% might be conservative. In any case, it's a lot.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Originally Posted by Flara

I live in Canada btw
maybe it's because i go to school with 500 chicks.... (I major in Fashion Design)

Fashion Design in Canada? You're not in Toronto, are you?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I bet she is, and I bet she goes to York, haha. There's not much else.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by RAZGRIZ-3

I bet she is, and I bet she goes to York, haha. There's not much else.

There's a fashion design school there, too. I can't remember the name of it, but a friend of mine graduated there a year ago.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Oh there's that Academy of Design or something, I had a friend who went there for a bit.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by DarkWingedAngel

That's what I mean. The girls who buy clothes every so many weeks to get the new in boots, trendy top, etc.

You're stating the question in a biased manner that steers the person towards a specific answer that you want to hear.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Aardork

You're stating the question in a biased manner that steers the person towards a specific answer that you want to hear.

And you are pointing out the obvious.

How ya doing, buddy?

york shmork... nopes
fashion design schools?
there's many in toronto and i do go to one of them hehe
oop i think im off topic.....

FELIPE NO

I''m drawn to a girl's personality first, actually. I like someone who is assertive, friendly, and optimistic. Their sense of style, eye contact, and body language are things I look for, too.

Physically, I do like eyes, but I like smiles better. I generally prefer slightly older girls, because I've been told that I am very mature for my age.

(I'm 19 by the way).

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

Flara, from your picture, I'd agree that you're a pretty girl.

*porno beat*
Deni putting on his moves.

I find girls with better fashion sense more approachable. At least you have a good conversation starter along the lines of "I like your pants, shirt, etc."

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Originally Posted by Yamamanama

That's one of the reasons I picked artistic ability over something like looks or fashion sense. "Nice picture" or "you have a nice voice" works as a conversation starter, and I'd feel really awkward asking some random person if they've ever made up flavors of ice cream that don't exist, like chicken and telephone ice cream.

I forgot to specify that I'm 22 and in college.

So you'd date a girl who was ugly and a complete cunt because she's a talented writer? Yama, you're a fucking joke lately. It's like you've decided that you have to try and be this esoteric entity, reigning high taste down across the boards. What, did you finally get around to Philosophy 100 this semester? Seriously, get a grip and chill the fuck out. We get it. You want to be deep. That's fine, but be a tad realistic.

Telephone ice cream was a good joke though.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Yamamanama

As I said, not much to discuss over looks, and how am I supposed to determine that someone's nice from a casual observation?
I could say it, but it would be too easy.

But could you not simply approach the pretty girl, strike up a conversation, and then split if you realise she has all the intelligence of a hamster?

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by SCHWARZE-7

But could you not simply approach the pretty girl, strike up a conversation, and then split if you realise she has all the intelligence of a hamster?

Thats what I do

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

23, in university.
I like to dress whatever I want, usually the clothes that I can roll over and over on my bed (Big T-shirt & shorts),lol. By the way I always on my uniform.
I don't like the way the guys flirt on me so I like to wear casual clothes, even though there're some guys bother me.
I believe that the good relationship shoul start in polite and respect way. So I don't have any interest in flashy guys who judge the woman on her clothes.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by DarkWingedAngel

The replies are interesting but I have another question- Do you guys believe the things girls do- make up, tanning, nails, buying new clothes, etc- is a waste of time and/or money?

No it's not. Not every girl is doing this to target the opposite gender.
It's got to do with personality, self-respect, mirror-looking and comfortability.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

FELIPE NO

Not being psychic, the only thing I have to go on when I first see a woman is her physical appearance.
Fair or not, people judge one another by looks and success. While looks can be deceiving, it's the only thing we have to go on. A woman with a firm body often *suggests* one with self control/respect. A woman in fine clothing suggests success and/or intellect.

It's the same with women judging a guy pulling up to the coffee shop by his car. If the guy is wearing nice clothing while driving a nice vehicle, chances are he has a good job and thus a good provider. At this point the woman probably won't mind talking to the guy to learn more, as she already knows he possesses at least one of the qualities she is looking for. This goes the same vice versa of course.

While almost every man does want a partner with a good sense of humor and a positive attitude, it can still only go so far in my eyes. While I do not expect supermodel beauty, I still want someone who has respect for their body.

For the Statistics.
23 - Recent Grad working in Career Job.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Further to my post above, I like women who have long hair and have it down, rather than up. Women look better (well, to me they do) with their hair down.

Also I forgot to mention:

I'm 23, and working. No school for me.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Garret

Not being psychic, the only thing I have to go on when I first see a woman is her physical appearance.
Fair or not, people judge one another by looks and success. While looks can be deceiving, it's the only thing we have to go on. A woman with a firm body often *suggests* one with self control/respect. A woman in fine clothing suggests success and/or intellect.

1- If looks can be deceiving, then why don't some people get to those who aren't 'hot' or 'sexy'? What's wrong with the average looking one? It's one argument that came up in our class. If you know that you can't always base someone's personality off their looks, then why do you do it? It is human nature but why not just TRY to get to know the girl that's not as pretty?

2- How does a woman in fine clothing suggest intellect? I disagree. I wear the most casual comfortable clothes I can yet I graduated with over a 4.0 GPA and so far my grades in my classes (I'm at the University now) are straight A's. It may show success... she has money and can afford or she could be going in debt with her credit card(s) while shopping.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by DarkWingedAngel

1- If looks can be deceiving, then why don't some people get to those who aren't 'hot' or 'sexy'? What's wrong with the average looking one? It's one argument that came up in our class. If you know that you can't always base someone's personality off their looks, then why do you do it? It is human nature but why not just TRY to get to know the girl that's not as pretty?

If being pretty or not being pretty is not realted to a good personality, then why go after someone less pretty if they have the same chance of having a good personality.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.