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I mean, look at this old fuck, for fucking fuck's sake! There's nowhere I can't reach. |
OR Is it more important to you to be with someone with whom you have that "spark" of chemistry, who you may or may not be all that compatible with? Because you do realize that the chances of getting matched up with someone you "click" with physically are slim to none, right? I mean, what are the odds? That sort of thing rarely happens meeting people in person; I shudder to think how much more rare it is when two people are matched up by a computer. So I say, it really depends on what you're looking for. This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it. |
And yes, I could change the criteria but the only thing I changed was my religious preferences. I had Judaism and Islam as two religions I'd go for, but I don't know if her entire family would be content with her being in a relationship with an atheist. I've scaled back to Christianity, religious or spiritual but non-denominational, and neither religious or spiritual, and hope that the lack of emphasis I placed on religious beliefs when answering the super-survey questions will be sufficient for keeping the devoutly religious at bay. I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body? |
I was speaking idiomatically. |
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I don't understand the question you asked, probably because it wasn't worded properly. :? Maybe this will clear it up: the must have's and can't stands are the top 10 qualities you choose from a list of about 50 must have's and 30 can't stands about your partner. Believe me, if she was hot and had very little about her that appealed to me, I'd probably not pursue anything too aggressively. I'm getting the feeling, though, that she probably isn't all too smart, since:
What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?
Last edited by Dopefish; Mar 11, 2006 at 10:01 AM.
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OK, say she sends you her "can't stand" list, and on it you see "doesn"t like spicy food". You HATE spicy food, but you're so anxious to meet her that you lie and say that you love spicy food. What's to stop you from doing that?
Was that worded better? FELIPE NO |
How ya doing, buddy? |
OK, whatever. Same principle. What's to stop you from lying once you see her lists?
Lordy. If I had know I was going to be pulling teeth like this I would have gotten my dental license. Jam it back in, in the dark. |
Because you send your lists simultaneously.
Why the fuck would I want to lie? I'm not that desperate (lies; I'm using eHarmony FFS), especially not to meet someone on the other side of the continent. There's nowhere I can't reach. |
I'm not saying YOU would lie. I'm asking how you know she's not lying. How does anyone who uses eharmony know that anyone else isn't lying? I guess what I'm getting at is that even though you send your lists simultaneously, that doesn't guarantee that someone will be honest. You (and I mean "you" as in "anyone who uses eharmony") could get her (and I mean "her" as in "anyone who uses eharmony") list of must haves and can't stands and realize that you two are never going to hit it off, but decide to be dishonest and not admit that out of desperation or whatever. It just doesn't seem all that fool-proof to me, but maybe I'm missing something. This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it. |
Well you probably know the answer to your question without me saying it: you can lie all you want, if you want to. I don't think most people would spend $100+ just to lie about who they are and not genuinely try to meet someone, but there's plenty of con artists out there too. Who knows; perhaps Sugar is one of them. Maybe I'm one. I don't suppose if we never meet we'll ever know for sure.
I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body? |
From some curiousity I decided to try out the free profile test. Well, big waste of like, a half hour filling out that crap and getting no matches, ah well. Just further proves me point that I'm a weirdo =).
I was speaking idiomatically. oh my gawddd |
Apparently their test weeds out a huge percentage of the people who take it, so it's probably not that you're weird (though you can certainly claim that if you want ) but that they're trying to be picky. (If you're not lying, that is. )
What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now? |
See, I didn't know there were direct questions to each other involved. That screws up everything. I thought you just filled out this super-in-depth personality profile that covered pretty much every imaginable aspect of a person (their personality, appearance, likes and dislikes, ect.) and you were matched up with a suitable person based on that.
Knowing that there's a potential for others to lie and just say what they know the other person wants to hear, what's the advantage of meeting someone like this? FELIPE NO |
Alice, they give you your match based on the personality profile that's compiled from the super-survey they pose to you before you even get the chance to subscribe. It's from that that they match you up with a person they suppose you'll be compatible with, and then you go through the questions.
If you need an idea of the type of questions involved and the answers, here's what I asked:
See, the trouble with lying is that you could lie correctly or incorrectly. I already know what answers I would want to see, so if she gets all 5 right then more power to her. What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?
Last edited by Dopefish; Mar 11, 2006 at 10:49 AM.
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By and large, I have found that the best relationship I can honestly say I regret having ended was the most imperfect one. I'm not saying it was the most fucked up one here, I'm saying that it was the one that was filled with all the quirks and imperfections that REALLY made every little thing worth remembering. I already have a group of friends who I "click" with. I would DIE if I had to put up with the same kind of projected illusion of perfection in a relationship. How ya doing, buddy? |
It's not about inserting rod A into slot B. That's just a silly way to think about it. There's quite a bit more that goes into a personality profile than mere classification, because, (duh) everyone's different. The service they give you is attempting to give you an overview of what they think you should look for. I remember mine saying that I should look for a relationship that was competition-free, and I think that's one of the best pieces of relationship advice I've ever been given. After I heard it, it felt right. It would drive me up the wall to be around someone who was constantly giving me the business. That isn't to say that I'd never establish a relationship with a competitive person, but what are the chances of me staying in that relationship for a long time, without ending up storming out of the house? Slim to none. I think the same goes for a lot of the other questions they present to you. How ya doing, buddy? |
What are you people talking about?
What's the difference in meeting people in a club as opposed to meeting people on the internet? Explain the logic behind there being more people you would end up liking at a club or something than behind a computer. This isn't the 80s. Lots of people use computers. It's actually beneficial to meet people online, I think, because you can guarantee some level of compatibility. Whereas meeting people randomly in public settings doesn't give you assurance of anything. And yeah, people could lie, but not about everything. People lie in person, anyway. The only thing a computer makes it any easier to lie about is your looks and meeting in person solves that problem. This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it. |
But hey, you could be right; I mean, it does work for some people. eHarmony isn't the largest and most successful without reason, I just don't agree with its practices, is all. I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?
Last edited by Paco; Mar 11, 2006 at 08:42 PM.
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It's not like you're legally married if you get matched with someone. You meet and find out what they're like, just like any other date. Why wouldn't you want to start things off knowing you have at least something in common with the person?
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Hmm good point, I see eharmony as more of a..."step" towards a relationship. Rather than physically going out and meeting people, this may just be a substitute to just pass through it without the hassle of socially drifting through people.
What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now? |
FELIPE NO |
What, you don't want my bikini-clad body? |
What a waste of fucking time. I got done with it and it told me it couldn't calculate for whatever reason, so I have no matches. That's pretty fucking stupid.
Jam it back in, in the dark. My music: http://www.nigel.has.it |
This happened to me, as well. Also, it doesn't like gay people. Apparently the founder is some sort of evangelist.
How ya doing, buddy? |