Man hid under little girls bed for three months...

Originally Posted by Devoxy

Hell why do you even think she's stupid?

Because she should have told someone about the guy when she left the room if the guy threatened her. If they where on friendly terms and she really considerd him a secret boyfriend or whatever, that's her problem.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

I have not taken any authority, nor have I called anyone pussies, your are assuming things like Devoxy, I simply stating that I can relate with the girl in a way. I was manipulated, not raped (Sorry, I should have mentioned that sooner) Can you relate to her in a similar way?

I absolutely cannot, which is why I'm taking the words of those who are more knowlegable about the case and of rape in general, instead of talking about how stupid a twelve year old rape victim is.

Why are you protecting a pedophile, Chibi Neko? Do you honestly think that child rape is okay?

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by a lurker

Why are you protecting a pedophile, Chibi Neko? Do you honestly think that child rape is okay?

Hell no! when did I say that? I am just saying she should have told someone If she was raped or harmed.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

Because she should have told someone about the guy when she left the room if the guy threatened her. If they where on friendly terms and she really considerd him a secret boyfriend or whatever, that's her problem.

Alright. I'm going to try and not yell at you like everyone else because, you know. Whatever.

There were no "friendly terms." The man plain and clearly manipulated the girl. She was too young (and likely innocent/naive) to know better. It could be any host of reasons, but a girl that age doesn't know. The man wrapped her up in his world.

She really can't be blamed for what happened to her. You really can't use yourself as a judge. Maybe you were educated or whatever, but you really can't say she's to blame. Thats just SILLY.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

You are saying that it is her fault for whatever happened. That sounds like rape apologetics to any thinking man.

So why are you apologising for a pedophile, Neko?

wild guess: your 'manipulation at 6 years old' was some neighbour offering you candy.

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Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

Because she should have told someone about the guy when she left the room if the guy threatened her.

You've mentioned you're a dyslexic college student so I'm going to let it slide that you never paid attention in abnormal psychology but do you SERIOUSLY know what you're talking about? Have you ever read case study upon case study of psychological abuse and KNOW how well-oiled a machine like this can operate?

You don't know what the girl went through, you said it yourself. So don't tout yourself as a connoisseur of this subject matter when you obviously lack the sympathy required to even opine on it.

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If they where on friendly terms and she really considerd him a secret boyfriend or whatever, that's her problem.

Back. The fuck... UP. Now this is HER fault?

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Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

Yes I do

**snip** but I was 6, and I did something about it by informing someone who could take action.

OK - thats cool that you did that and all, but not every kid at that age is going to be as smart to think to do such a thing. Especially when threatened, molested, or heaven knows what else: and even more so at a malleable age like that. Regardless of what you may think, not every 12 year old is going to know or have the wits about themselves to be able to think on their feet in a situation like that. To assume that all would is quite frankly, kind of stupid.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by a lurker

You are saying that it is her fault for whatever happened. That sounds like rape apologetics to any thinking man.

So why are you apologising for a pedophile, Neko?

wild guess: your 'manipulation at 6 years old' was some neighbour offering you candy.

You can think what you like, but that is not what I mean, you are trying to twist what I saying. I am not apologizing for anyone.

How ya doing, buddy?

I like how Chibi Neko thinks she has a right to run her mouth off due to the fact that she's speaking as a woman and as a child victim of manipulation.

I will bring up the fact that there were women who fought against female sufferage in the 1900s. Chibi will have no idea what I'm trying to refer to with this, but then, no one is surprised.

Double Post:

Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

You can think what you like, but that is not what I mean, you are trying to twist what I saying. I am not apologizing for anyone.

You said verbatim that it was her own fault that she was tricked.

You honestly think that child rape is okay. that's mindblowing.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Dubble

Regardless of what you may think, not every 12 year old is going to know or have the wits about themselves to be able to think on their feet in a situation like that. To assume that all would is quite frankly, kind of stupid.

Oh I understand that, I was just saying what I posted at the beginning... she had the opprotunity to tell someone when she left the room.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Chibi, becides your own sick satisfaction of putting a twelve year old totally in her place, what do you think would be accomplished by blaming the victim in this case?

I hesitate to say it, but do you think she seduced the pedophile? That she's predatory? what's going on in that empty little head of yours, dollface?

I was speaking idiomatically.

Basically Chibi Neko, I think you're confusing stupidity with ignorance. Let me clarify that for you:

Ignorace A lack of knowledge. Ignorance is also a "state of being ignorant" or unaware/uninformed.

Stupidity Poor use of judgement, or insensitivity to nuances in a person who is otherwise intelligent.

Can you properly judge a situation in which you have no experience, when you are at an age that you have no contextual experience in?

The parents are stupid, the man is stupid. The girl is an ignorant, innocent, victim.

Originally Posted by Encephalon

I hope you don't ever have children because I'm quite sure that you would eat them at the first sign of "easy manipulation".

LOL... You're awesome, as usual...

Originally Posted by Metaconsciou§

If decided to have a child I think I would be paranoid of boogeymen.

I already am...

How ya doing, buddy?

You know, I'm inclined to also think that maybe the parents weren't exactly doing their job correctly in this situation. Or, you know, I could be wrong.

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No, you're totally right, stupid parents ftw!

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

!? what happened to not talking to strangers
especially homeless ones that want to abuse you from under your bed..
It brings new meaning to checking under the bed for monsters *shutters*

Jam it back in, in the dark.

It's still too disturbing. How did the man even find the time to elaborately hide under the wood planks under her bed, unnoticed by the mom!? I could understand the basement, but in the girl's room...

I also wonder why the 10 year old girl didn't tell anyone, assuming she never had contact with the man in person. Or even the parents, how they couldn't notice any strange noise or signs whatsoever. Poor children, I wonder how this will affect the rest of their lives.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by mindOverMatter

!? what happened to not talking to strangers
especially homeless ones that want to abuse you from under your bed..
It brings new meaning to checking under the bed for monsters *shutters*

That's what I'm saying, a real boogeyman!

x__x

::hides under covers::

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by mindOverMatter

!? what happened to not talking to strangers
especially homeless ones that want to abuse you from under your bed..
It brings new meaning to checking under the bed for monsters *shutters*

Simple. Ever see the quote: "A stranger is a friend you haven't met yet?"

That just contradicts the whole "Don't talk to strangers" thing....

Anyway, yes, the girl was manipulated. So much that she was in LOVE, folks. The girl considered the man her boyfriend. She didn't tell anyone because she knows what goes on between men and women in love. And that's how the guy used her.

He probably told her he loved her to get what he wanted.

Now, I'm not saying this is the girl's fault--it's definitely the guy's fault with the mind games he played.

Someone asked how the mother couldn't notice anything--especially increased water usage. When the family was gone, he could have filled a sink with water and cleaned himself that way. As for clothes--when I was twelve--I did mine, so it wouldn't be too big a shock that she washed his as well.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by mindOverMatter

!? what happened to not talking to strangers
especially homeless ones that want to abuse you from under your bed.

I take it you just decided to skip the entire thread and repeat the first few posts ad nauseum, huh?

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

It is hard to talk about, even though I am online and anonymous. I wasn't raped. That is why I did not want to give details, just prove a small point.

Yet you're dangling it front of us, nay, holding above our heads and saying this gives you authority.

You can't do that and then not talk about what your experience was. It's hypocritcal, petty, and stupid. It makes you seem like an arrogant asshole. "Oh, I know more about you because of this mysterious and vague event that I won't tell you about."

It frankly destroys any credibility you have about your story; I'm convinced you made it up.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?