I like girls.

In the past year or two Ive stopped looking at girls from a physical stand point and started looking for someone I actually like to be around.

Sex gets boring, and so does physcial attraction. The girls ive always liked the most, are ones I can talk to without having to play kiss ass, and walk on eggshells.

The whole "Ive got the hottest girlfriend" bit got old after my first year of college. I would date girls that are attractive, but ultimately uncompatible, and then we would break up after about a month.

I love girls, and I love companionship.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by *AkirA*

In the past year or two Ive stopped looking at girls from a physical stand point and started looking for someone I actually like to be around.

Sex gets boring, and so does physcial attraction. The girls ive always liked the most, are ones I can talk to without having to play kiss ass, and walk on eggshells.

The whole "Ive got the hottest girlfriend" bit got old after my first year of college. I would date girls that are attractive, but ultimately uncompatible, and then we would break up after about a month.

I love girls, and I love companionship.

I totally agree with you. Although the mentality for many people in College/University stays at that hottest girlfriend deal as far as graduation... for me personally, I am around the middle. I want an attractive girl, but someone I can have lots in common with and can be very interested in each other for a long time.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Dubble

I was in a wedding a few weeks ago where the bridesmaids were all in bright blue and chocolate brown. They looked like blueberries wrapped in shit. Pretty girls should not look like blueberries wrapped in shit.

Because wedding 'fashion' today is shit. Sorry, but I've been to a helluva lot of weddings (quartet musician...), and there might have been one occasion where the bridesmaids had decent dresses. As blue said, it's really hard to pick a color and style to fit everybody -- but it would be 50x easier to do that if every.single.dress wasn't fucking strapless. I swear, the number of bridesmaid dresses and wedding dresses I've seen with straps is like, zero. And there's always the bride's two requisite 'fat friends' that simply don't look good in a strapless gown. Or some girls just don't fill out the front of the dress, so it's all gappy and ugly.

Of course, I want to have a late Fall wedding (whenever that comes). To hell with all this summer wedding shit.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by Arkhangelsk

Because wedding 'fashion' today is shit. Sorry, but I've been to a helluva lot of weddings (quartet musician...), and there might have been one occasion where the bridesmaids had decent dresses. As blue said, it's really hard to pick a color and style to fit everybody -- but it would be 50x easier to do that if every.single.dress wasn't fucking strapless. I swear, the number of bridesmaid dresses and wedding dresses I've seen with straps is like, zero. And there's always the bride's two requisite 'fat friends' that simply don't look good in a strapless gown. Or some girls just don't fill out the front of the dress, so it's all gappy and ugly.

i hear that man, as for girls i think they rule about 70% of them are moderatly attractive and are easy to talk to (most of them anyway) whats not to like?

FELIPE NO

See? Tasteful, flattering (even on the pregnant girl!)... it's all good. And the flower girl is pretty dang cute, too.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

I love girls. More often than not, I forget how they complete my life.

For me, merely learning how one particular female is unique in nature is inherently enticing. Watching girls use their body language in a variety of situations is something else I enjoy dearly. How they carry themselves makes a large impact on me, as well. All of this, combined with their sense of humor, motivations, direction, and overall demeanor, is why ladies never cease intrigue and captivate me. I try and pick up on these subtle characteristics wherever, and whenever possible.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by *AkirA*

Sex gets boring, and so does physcial attraction. The girls ive always liked the most, are ones I can talk to without having to play kiss ass, and walk on eggshells.

Abuuu? I don't see how these two statements go together, to be honest. There are plenty of sexy women out there who you don't have to play games with. I see no reason you should sacrifice the physicality of a relationship in hopes of a deeper emotional connection.

Not knocking the mind link or anything, but why should she be an uggo?
I suppose I should point out the fact I find most women attractive though.

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Originally Posted by Fresh Frank

Abuuu? I don't see how these two statements go together, to be honest. There are plenty of sexy women out there who you don't have to play games with. I see no reason you should sacrifice the physicality of a relationship in hopes of a deeper emotional connection.

Not knocking the mind link or anything, but why should she be an uggo?
I suppose I should point out the fact I find most women attractive though.

Im not saying she has to be a dog to be interesting. Im just saying I no longer sit at restaurants with friends, and completely drop the conversation were having to oogle a girl walking by. Its just not something I do now. Ill admit looks are the first thing people notice, but Its how we let it effect us afterwards that matters. I suppose I shouldnt say looks are completely out of the question, but they are taking a major backseat at the moment.

Sex for anyone whos had it knows its not overrated, but also not the most important thing in a relationship. Sex to me only helps affirm what you already have. Ive never been the type to just go out looking for girls with the only intention being sex.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Hey now, I'm no hard hat when I go out, and I never have been. That doesn't mean I don't oggle (oogle, oggle?) ladies when they walk by. My daddy raised me right. That is to say, you've gone too far if you turn your head to follow her in a public place. Real southern gent, I am.

I do think you took what I said a little farther than I meant it though, as I am not about sex for the sake of sex. I just don't see any real problem with mistaking lust for love, so long as it's an honest mistake. It's not ideal, no, but it's not all that awful, either.

That said, I really love ladies. All of you. Yes, even you.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

My comments were less a personal attack on you, and more of a general observation.

Mistaking love for lust happens. Staring at a beautiful woman isnt wrong, but losing your train of thought and having to make it public that you just witnessed a beautiful woman passing is just getting old to me. Its like alot of guys do it just to remind everyone there not gay.

Either way, you do things your way and I do them mine. Its all just prefrence. I sound like a salty old man, but Im really not as complacent towards women as im coming across. Its just weird to explain.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Girls are fuckin' sweet.

... 'Specially my mom!

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by Zephyrin

... 'Specially my mom!

Seconded.

FELIPE NO

I like girls. They smell nice.

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What?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Originally Posted by *AkirA*

Staring at a beautiful woman isnt wrong, but losing your train of thought and having to make it public that you just witnessed a beautiful woman passing is just getting old to me. Its like alot of guys do it just to remind everyone there not gay.

Agreed. It's perfectly fine to appreciate an attractive female as she passes by, but there's no point in having to stop whatever you're doing. But, hey, that's the way our society seems to be today. If you don't take as much time as you can to check girls out, you must not be attracted to them.

Originally Posted by Elixer

I've been put off girls in general for a few years after some garbage I had to put up with earlier this year.

What? Time paradox? Or do you mean you will be?

Jam it back in, in the dark.