Very tricky situation. Need some clever ideas

A-B-O-R-T!

You are counting your chickens before your eggs are even produced.

You are trying to use myspace for a girl who you didn't know that well, are trying to befriend because you want to date her, not because you want to be friends with her...and you're fucking using MYSPACE!

If you two weren't super good friends back in the day, she might chat with you on myspace to say hi but you are basically trying to break a rock with a glass hammer. Using myspace to get a "date" isn't the greatest choice BECAUSE, unless you actually hung out with her for real, you will NOT get a feel for the person.

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I'm starting to lose patience. She has like the perfect face for me, but my chances of running into her where I can strike up a convo are just extremely thin. I rarely see her, and when I do it is in a way where I can't talk to her without seeming like a total nut. Like today to talk to her, I'd have to to a U turn to the other side of the street, slam the breaks pull over and jump out of the car. I was hoping that I'd just bump into her on the street or in a store, but the chances are slim at this point. I probably won't run into her again at all for a while. It has been a month since the last time, and could be longer for the next.

If its rare that you'll be able to strike up a convo, and its rare you'll see her again...you don't have much of a chance. The most you could get is a phone number.

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So I'm thinking at this point desperate times call for desperate measures. Maybe operation Jason Bourne(stealth-stalk) is in order. Not the hardcore stalk, but to find out where she lives so I can plan something at least. I couldn't find her anywhere online so that is out.

Hello Restraining order

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Yes, I am that desperate btw. At my current age, I'm looking for someone I could potentially start a life with, and this girl has the perfect face for me, so that is a start. Of course she could be a total psycho, but I'll never find out if I don't talk to her, and to do that I have to snatch her up.

Here you sound like a very shallow bastard. A agree that physical attraction is a must in all relationships but seriously...

I wish you luck but if you said its rare that you see her and that you were never friends with her to begin with...then it'll be rare if you can actually get together with her.

I would say just move on/move out of the city. Honestly, girls sometimes are like guys, they're a dime a dozen you just have to get out there and look.


But seriously...stay away from Myspace to get a date unless you know the girl personally

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I advise moving on. MySpace is not the way to make/further good relationships. Seriously, if I were her, I'd be a bit confused that this guy I saw four years ago suddenly added me as a friend.

Moreso, thoughts ocme to mind. You barely know her, her interests, her goals, etc. How are you sure this will coincide with your own? You don't need to share the same interests in everything, but a relationship with no common interests is looking for diaster, frustration, boredom and general unhappiness.

Moreso, ask yourself this question (since you mentioned both looks and wanting to settle down)...what will it be like in thirty to forty years when she has aged? What will you have then that will make you (and presumably her) happy?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Sorry for the lack of updates fellas. Been kinda busy lately.

Anyway, the update is I gave up, and then shortly after I gave up I found out she had a boyfriend so it wouldn't have worked anyway.

I was really attracted to her, and only used myspace for monitoring, but I realized it just wasn't going to happen. I found out I know someone she knows and talked to them about her and she very much isn't my type anyway.

So that is the end of that. I've moved on for a while now so she's long gone in the rearview mirror.

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