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Carob Nut |
Is this normal?
Right now I'm single, and I liked this guy quite a bit personality wise. I'm currently dating another guy as well, but I like him for his looks but personality wise not as much as the other person. Is it weird for me to like the guy with the better personality for awhile and than a couple days later that feeling goes away and than it comes back again? Why is this happening? This has been going on for like 2 months.
Jam it back in, in the dark. |
The TS master |
it's normal to feel that sometimes. personally though I'd be looking at personality wise but thats just my opinion, do what you think is right. thats about all most people would be able to say.
There's nowhere I can't reach. |
You're letting yourself get caught in moments, not with any one person. Sure, being cute is a plus but having a dry personality leaves alot of quiet moments. You have to decide whom you like spending time with more. It's not fair to either of these guys, or you, that you're dragging along with any false hope.
It is normal to feel that way because two guys are providing what you wish one would. It comes and goes because you have 2 guys to think of! It confuses you because you feel a bit strongly for one a bit more than the other. IMO? Cut one loose. That's going to be a way to concentrate on the guy whom you feel more drawn to...I say cut cutie pants. This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.
"People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think" -
-- George Carlin |
I agree with Lighter, although you may want to think about finding a guy whose personality is better AND who you find physically attractive. Personality is important, but that physical spark is what makes it a romantic relationship instead of just a friendship, and if you don't have that spark, all you have is a friend. And that's not a bad thing, but it takes more than friendship to make a dating-type relationship work.
In summary, I'd go with the hot one until a better fit came along. Just make sure he knows you're not interested in anything long-term. It would be unfair to make him think that he's "the one" if he's just a fling. How ya doing, buddy? |