Question for the girls

I have heard from many sources that women also have a tendency to like to dress up merely to try and show up other women, or to just impress other gals, not to get attention from men.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Plarom

Moreso, how to distinguish the evil attention whores from the good is what I've been trying to figure out since I first came across this thread! I'm beginning to think it's impossible, however.

It is impossible to do on sight. You actually have to take a risk, and converse with her.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Smoodle

It's not rape when a girl lets down a guy simply because he's attracted to her, and she's definitely dressed to impress (out of the ordinary) ... The question is, who is she trying to impress?

Perhaps whatever guy who might, in the off chance, come by, sweep her off her feet, and fulfill her every imagined fantasy(realistic or not). You gotta be prepared, cuz you never know.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Smoodle

^ But wouldn't it be creepy to have some guy sweep a stranger off her feet?

But he is her dream guy. She will know INSTANTLY that he is the right one, and he her, and thus the whole creepiness factor is eliminated. She will feel as if she knew him all her life.
And they will ride off into the sunset, in his BMW Z8, happily ever after.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by Smoodle

Hahahah! So true.

Yeah. I find it rather humorous how no one is really disagreeing with me.

This is so ridiculously outlandish, but I don't think any honest woman would deny these things.
(either that, or it is so outlandishly wrong as to not be worth their time)

perhaps I should drop my engineering major, and go for psychology

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I do.

Unfortunately, this is not really the case. More often than not, it is women who set the common beauty standards. They are more often affected by what other women think about them than what men think about them.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by Lady Miyomi

You are so very right. Yes, most of them ASSUME that I'm going to fall head over heels and say yes. Most of the time, I either walk away like I didn't hear anything or I'll say no politely. However, there are some that can't take no for an answer. Then I'm forced to be mean (which I don't like to do).

Is there a way in which a guy can approach you which will not set off the "cocky alarm," but will set off the "confident bell?"
If so, how?

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Ok, cool. That is what I thought.
But it is always good to get verification of my thoughts.

FELIPE NO

Originally Posted by valiant

Wait...so are you suggesting that guys who are usually timid and don't do anything shouldnt go Out and Above? (For example showing up randomly and giving you flowers when it is not typical of their nature?)

I think that there can be an acceptable delineation between attempting to have a totally different personality for someone, and having a totally different personality due to someone... if that makes any sense.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?