Sex: Take It Or Leave It

you left one out:

c) have never had sex, and therefore don't have any real valid opinion about it at all until they do.

How ya doing, buddy?

I would like my future gf to be open to the idea of sex, yes, if only to assure me that there is more to our relationship than cuddling and talking for hours on the phone.

I would rather NOT place emphasis on sex in the relationship, but that's because of my own insecurities; would she get bored? am i doing ok? does she think I'm too small? is she FAKING?

that sorta stuff.

How ya doing, buddy?

I think we can all agree that sex in a relationship is quite important, yes?
Yes, it's an important step UP in the level of intimacy with your partner, but there ARE people in this world, like it or not, who don't view sex as THAT MUCH of an important thing in their lives, nor their relationship. I think we should at least accept that, without getting into negative territory.

Saying that one doesn't enjoy sex does not mean one is not getting any, and is therefore bitter about it. This can simply mean that sex has lost it's meaning, such as in Rocketdog's case, among other things, and so they find pleasure in OTHER things.

How ya doing, buddy?

I realised that so many of my friends take such relaxed attitudes about sex.
It's still very much a private thing, but when it comes down to it, they're not THAT embarrased to talk about it.
Myself on the other hand....besides making immature jokes, I'm still very curious about the whole experience.
I've heard this term used a lot:
"You just haven't had GOOD sex yet".

So true, lol.
I'm FAR from being any good at it...I think I'll trudge through and try and have a decent RELATIONSHIP first before trying to be some kind of sex god, lol.
And I know I'll sound hypocritical here, but there's one thing I cannot stand, and that's one night stands.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?