Do you ever try too hard in a relationship and waste your time in the process?

Have you ever been in one of those "relationships" where you're trying to hook up with the other person and even though they have all of these negative traits you keep at it?
Like let's say you meet up with a girl and she seems pretty nice. You start talking to her and she seems nice. And then as you keep talking throughout the days and even after you go on a first date she keeps getting worse and worse? Like, as you find out more about her life and who she is you become less and less attracted to her? You know, one of those situations where she was never the hottest girl around and then even her personality faults her in your eyes?

I'm in one of those relationships right now and it totally blows. I'm thinking about just telling her "hey, you're not my type let's stop wasting each other's time" but I keep holding out for something redeeming. Meh, it kinda blows.
Plus she's a little younger than me and seems to be stuck in the popular high school kids' way of dating where relationships are a dime a dozen and guys are just useful for money and popularity.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Dee

It's time to break up. I wouldn't want to waste time with a person you don't even enjoy spending time with... Do you even still like this girl? Don't feel bad about moving on since it seems like she isn't serious with you.

I know that, and I actually already did.

I'm just wondering if anyone else has been in the same situation and how it panned out for them.

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