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Chibi Neko · Local time: May 20, 2006, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Devo

I think it's pretty obvious she's getting some on the side.

I am not actually, I just have a really low sex drive and I don't think sex is the top priority.

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Chibi Neko · Local time: May 22, 2006, 03:14 PM

Originally Posted by RacinReaver

So when you guys go to the movies, do you ever see a movie that he wants to see instead of one that you want to?

Both really, we usually have the same taste in movies, so many of the ones we want to see end up being the same ones, but I won't go to see any horror films with him cuz I am not fond of those, and he won't go to see any musical theater with me for the same reason, (I actually inisted that he would not like the Phantom of the Opera but he came anyway.. turns out I was right)

Originally Posted by a lurker

If that's the case, would you object to your boyfriend seeking non-committal sex from a third party? Let us assume that at the time, it is a priority to him.

You really want the honest truth? (knowing that Angel will be reading this) ..... I really would not care as long as there was no love behind it.

Originally Posted by BurningRanger

I have a feeling neither of those two will be doing any more posting in this thread.

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Chibi Neko · Local time: May 23, 2006, 01:46 AM

Originally Posted by BurningRanger

I'm not saying it to be a scumbag. In his situation, even if don't want to fuck someone else, I would be driven to call bullshit on such a completely unrealistic statement. NO, she is not okay with him having relations with others. YES, she is a pretentious bitch for saying so to defend her disinterest in fucking her boyfriend.

If he's as good a guy as he wants us to believe, he doesn't deserve to be led around by someone who is full of shit.

You really are making me feel really good about myself you know that? Number one, I was refering that if he came home one night and said 'I just slept with someone else' I am not going to freak and say 'how could you'.

There is a difference in love and lust, and I love Angel like crazy, and I would not blame him for anything like that, but I know that it will never happen because I know what he is like.

My low sex-drive has multiple reasons, but some are far too personal to go into. More sex would be nice, but we both know that it isn't everything, as long as the love is there. Everyone looks at it differently, I am just glad that I have a bf that is really understanding and is willing to work with me in my difficult time, and not some guy who just wants to get layed.

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Chibi Neko · Local time: May 24, 2006, 02:14 AM

Originally Posted by a lurker

If that's the sort of relationship that they're happy with, I don't know what badgering them is going to accomplish. If you get really lucky maybe you'll get a girl to feel bad on the internet? That's not difficult.

and if me of all people is saying you might be going a bit far here, perhaps I have a point.

Thanks lurker, you really do seen to know where Angel and I are getting at.... the fact is that he believes that love, respect, and understanding is the most important part of a relationship, he REALLY is that kind of guy! I KNOW that he would never go out for a one night stand even though it is something I would not blame him for, because my situation is really hard to deal with...

besides, we do far more than just wait for my sex drive to boot up, we snuggle on couch to watch DVDs and play PS2, go out together, and spend a lot of time talking and having fun.

So BurningRanger, we are happy with things the way they are, so telling Angel so go out and get some is not going to accomplish anything because he is your opposite as far as the topic is concerned, not all men get a girlfriend just for sex.

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