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Originally Posted by Sassafrass
NO ONE has the right to tell a person what they can and can not do with their own bodies. Yea, it sucks. Yea, it could be child abuse. But while the mother is carrying that baby, both life forms are compacted into ONE body who makes all the decisions.
You could not and SHOULD NOT outlaw a mother's right to smoke while she's carrying child. It's an out-right violation of personal freedom if you ask me. If a mother wants to smoke while she's with child, it's her loss - not mine. (Except for the small portion of my income that will take care of her kid's ailments, the stupid ass).
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Could have not said it better myself. True smoking and drinking is harmful to the child, but it is the woman's choice. If it where outlawed, then why not outlaw abortion? Ending the pregancey would get rid of the fetus altogether, and it is the woman's choice, it has nothing to do with me.
I love my cousin and I gave her advice against it, that is all I could do. The choice was hers, but that choice told me that she cared about her habit more then the well being of her child seeing that she was planning to keep it, so yeah... I consider that selfish.
The baby was born a little light, but is growing very well, so she was lucky.
This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.