Dealbreakers

I've never really had to deal with any 'deal breakers' because I've never really dated anyone that I wasn't friends with first. I have always got to know someone a little before I would even think about dating them.

That isn't to say that some 'deal breakers' haven't come into play after dating for a month or two. So mine aren't really on a 'first' or 'second' date matter.

I hate it when people are not as open minded as they at first tried to believe that they were. It bothers me when people make comments about a group based on race or religion even in jest. It has come up a lot and it is something that I do not tolerate very well.

I am also not very found of men or women for that matter that lie to me when it is very obvious that they are lying. I've always been rather good at finding things out because I'm a snoop one of my own 'deal breakers' I am sure. However I believe that people are better served telling the truth. You think this other girl is hot, fine with me just don't lie about it. I tend to think people are hiding things from me when they lie about those types of things. Such as when I was having my husband quit smoking he bought a pack and left the receipt out. So I called him up and asked him about it, he tried to lie at first and then thought better of it. I just hate finding things out that way.

My third ‘deal breaker’ would probably have to be the way a person treats me, I have been around a lot of people and I like to have someone around that acts like they like me no matter who they are around. I hate people that treat you one way in private or around a certain group of people to only change how they act towards you in a different situation or around different people. It becomes very confusing to me and makes me feel like I’m just a game.

This is the ultimate deal breaker for me, they must love animals and hold them in as high regard as I do. Anyone that cannot be kind to an animal cannot be with me period. I relate to animals more than I do people so they will always be a part of my life.

Other than those things everything is game.

Jam it back in, in the dark.