Sex. Before or after?

Originally Posted by Technophile

Only till the sex lasts. I doubt they'll be filled with joy when the object of their desires ups and leaves after the sex.

As someone who's suffered from both chaste unrequited love and sex with too many feelings involved on my end, I would definitely say that chaste unrequited love is much, much worse. If they sleep with you it means they at least find you physically attractive, and that's much better than not being attracted to you at all.

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Only when they apply such conditions to casual sex.

I will never cease to be amazed at the ability of virgins to make all sorts of assumptions about sex without ever having experienced any kind of sex at all. That's like me giving an entire lecture on how to sail a sailboat when I've never even ridden in one that someone else was sailing.

Why the fuck did you ask for our opinions if you didn't want to hear anything that didn't confirm that your view of things is correct? I'm tempted to close down the thread, since you keep trying to cut off any discussion that might take place.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Technophile

You're the first person that I've encountered that was in such a situation that actually favores the dead end sex, as opposed to nothing. But hey, to each his or her own.

We've already established that your experience doesn't amount to shit, I don't know why you keep bringing it up as though it were a valid resource.

Also, who said anything about dead end? It's still sex, it has value in and of itself.

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Save me your faulty analogies. Yeah, let's compare something mostly instinctual to a skill that requires a lot more honing and practice. =/

Heaven forfend. Do you honestly think that sex requires no practice? The first time you jump in the sack with your one true love, you'll make her multiple and last for two hours, will you? Humans, unlike animals who act basically on instinct, have sex for pleasure. And learning how to give pleasure takes skill, not instinct. I guarentee you that learning how to get a girl to orgasm takes alot more "honing" than figuring out which way the wind is blowing.

Also, "instinctual" rather contradicts your magical making love idea, so you might want to refrain from bringing it up.

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How is it wrong to assume that sex with someone that you actually have a full fledged relationship with can mount to more than whatever the one night stand with that hot guy/girl at the club will turn out to be?

"Mount." Brilliant.

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Stimulating discussion does not exclusively entail saying things like "oh ok, you're right" or "I agree with everything you have to say without questioning anything at all!" If that's too overbearing for you then go ahead and close the thread down. You're really not doing me any favors here by keeping it open if all I'm allowed to do is just agree with everyone else. God forbid we can actually compare our differing views without attacking eachother or having the "I'm always right and you're always wrong" mentality. =/

No, honey. What I was saying is that there's no point in having a "discussion" with a stone wall. You refuse to accept anything any of us say as valid. If your stance on the matter was so immovable, you shouldn't have created the thread to begin with, because no one wants to listen to the boy who thinks he's always right.

There's nowhere I can't reach.