I don't do too much talking these days.
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Level 29.15
Feb 2006
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Jun 28, 2006, 01:47 AM
Local time: Jun 27, 2006, 11:47 PM
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In my group of friends it doesn't seem to be a big deal. There have been more than a few occassions where someone's dated someone's ex, and no one's really cared. I think time is a factor in this; the time between on relationship and another all been several months if not years apart. On one occassion my ex started to date my best friend, and she was worried I was going to be upset--but I thought it was hysterical, and it turned out to be a really good thing because it meant that he and I could be friends again (he'd been mad that I started dating someone else a month after he and I broke up, but now that he was dating someone else, it was somehow okay).
At any rate, I think trying to get involved in your friend's relationships is a bit of a bad idea. Unless your ex cheated on you with your friend, getting upset about people being attracted to each other is a bit juvenile.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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nadienne