The "Change" phenomenon

Every time I've broken up with someone, I've felt the urge to cut my hair. This is probably for several reasons: guys who are attracted to me always love my hair, so cutting it is some small revenge; people cut their hair in mourning, and I think there's something instinctive in that; after a relationship ends, you just want a change.

I generally resist that urge, because I know it'll pass. I did however obliterate my hair a few years ago, completely unrelated to my relationship status, because I was absolutely tired of being known for my hair. It didn't work. I was then known for the lack of my former hair, and it made my face look chubby.

I don't remember where I was going with this. I guess mostly along the lines that people often feel the need to re-invent themselves, especially in the adolescent years, and girls probably have more of a visible outer canvas to work with than most guys, so you notice it more.

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