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Originally Posted by Djinova
Eh, I think it depends on how important "group happiness" is to you. It can't be that bad when you marry a guy, bear a child or two, work on something together as a community of mixed gender and age. Your parents might even be happy about some grandchildren and so on...
But I would only suggest that when you CAN place the happiness of others over your own, transforming their happiness into your own.
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Nobody can do that entirely, Djinova. Placing other people's happiness and priorities permenantly above your own guarentees that you'll be miserable. It's not like pretending she's straight and getting married to a man and living a lie her entire fucking life is going to have the same effect that helping the poor had on Mother Theresa. That's probably about the dumbest thing anyone's said in this thread, even including the moron who said that being gay has to do with a chromozonal inbalance.
There's nowhere I can't reach.