Your Occupying Romances (Crushes!)

Originally Posted by Aquas

Bah. I was being dense, should have kept my mouth shut. I would never take advantage of this girl. OKAY. And the possibility of anything sexual related is pretty much totally out of the question, and that includes before she's 18. I'm relating on a harmless fantasy. I have plenty of sense to not stoop so low. I'm a friend of the family. But I'm made out to be the bad guy here because of just that, a harmless fantasy I thought I could share because I was in a giddy mood from not sleeping. I understand your concern, I DO! But here me straight that this is a distant fantasy. And I intend no evil doing! NO EVIL DOING!

And honestly I don't jerk off to the idea of such! I actually thought about it briefly and decided that I shouldn't.

My description of my "crush" is for the most part a big hyperbole for my feelings. That I shouldn't have presented publicly. Does it change anything if in my perspective I view her as a girl more mature for her age? Is it just about maturity? What is it exactly? In my fantasy she is depicted as a mature girl, and a blaze burns in her eyes. (Would you be curious to read the poem I wrote on her, perhaps it would justify me more?)

The good that exists here, in my opinion, is that she is revered by me, a friend! Is that not a greater good, for reverence of one another to exist in the boggle of waves and space that exist between people?

Pedos never think that what they're doing is wrong. After all, they love the kid.

Just because you haven't technically done anything doesn't make you morally acceptable. The simple fact that your sexual thought processes have moved beyond, "wow, that kid'll be cute when she grows up" into "I have such a crush on her, let me just fantasize about her for a little bit...without fapping. For now" means that you've got some serious mis-fires in your brain, and you need to go talk to a professional before you end up in jail for "desecrating this girl with your manhood" as you so delicately put it.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Phoenix X

Wow, you guys are fucking harsh. It's just a crush, you lame brains! Dude isn't looking for your approval, he's looking for your stories. As though nobody here has ever crushed on someone they really shouldn't have... What's the point in lecturing the guy? You think it'll change the way he feels? Christ, you'd think he was the only one who ever had thoughts that society might frown upon. It's not like he seduced her with his maturity and dashing good looks here. Damn man, I'm 20 and I've found myself pondering "what ifs" regarding my 14-year-old friend, but it's because we're really good friends, not because I want to bone her. We all think about doing things that we'd never actually do.

And for the record, there's a world of difference between banging an 8 year old and being attracted to a 14 year old. The reason pedophilia is looked down upon is not because the act of sexual intercourse is disgusting, it's because it fucks with the kid's mental development. Clearly he cares about her, and that's the difference. Pedos don't care about ruining a kid's life, they don't care about how they might affect their development, and that's why they're scumbags. Don't come down on this guy just because he has a crush on his friend, and certainly don't try to make him feel dirty because he shares a bond with someone younger than him. Seems to me he knows the difference, so what's the deal? Now, if he went and boned her, that would be a different story, but that's not the case, so lay off. Jesus.

Self-righteous naivete is so refreshing in the mornings!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Reznor

Hahaha.

Maybe it should've been "To TRY and convince you".

Since no girl, not even a fourteen year old, would fall for that.

Honestly, if I was a fourteen year old girl, and some twenty year old creep wrote me a poem, I'd ask him to sign it, and frame it with "CREEP" in big bold letters.

Actually, and unfortunately, that's just not true. 14 year olds don't think it's sick when 20 year olds flirt with them, they're enamoured--because he's college age, and mature (supposedly), and girls that age long for anyone to pay attention to them sexually. That doesn't make it right or consensual if something does happen.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by GRUN-1

Just more evidence that women are genetically predisposed to remain in the kitchen.

Whatever. You're not going to tell me that any 14 year old boy is going to turn down a 20 year old woman who wants to seduce him.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?