Blind Dates

What a small world it is. I used to play Illutia (and I think Izabella still does...)

I've never spoken to any of the designers, aside from the woman who owns and runs the game, so I don't have any inside dirt.

I don't see any harm in going on the date. To assuage your fears, this guy actually goes out and volunteers his time for something, instead of sitting at home all day, so at the very least, he has some motivation and social interaction skills.

Jam it back in, in the dark.